The Ideal Life Partner

Many time I was asked if there such a thing as an ideal life partner or soul mate, I know of one lady who was obsessed with finding her soul mate, this resulted in many failed relationships.

I have another friend who wanted a wife that would have a 'spiritual path', what he meant was to find someone who was practicing spirituality and would therefore be clearing her own karma so that it would not affect him adversely in any way. He is still single.

We seek a life partner for various reasons, some of us have a list of attributes that they want to their life partners to have, some just go with the flow. Going with the flow, the path of least resistance, will take you on for the ride of your life, but you will definitely enjoy it.

When I met my wife, both of us were not on the path, we were ordinary people looking for someone to share our life together, we did many silly things along the way, but things always turn out right. We learned to love each other, love our children, even our pets, and most importantly we learn to love ourselves.

Appreciate the life you have now, appreciate your life partner, all of us are still learning, still evolving to the better person we are meant to be, have patience with your life partner, give them your unconditional love, just like how you love your child, give the same to them.

This morning, a friend messaged me with this ' I can't find a reason to be happy.' , my reply was ' Be Happy no reasons needed.' Be happy no matter what, it can even affect your DNA, bring about a healthier you.

If you have been dowsing regularly, or reading my blog regularly (I appreciate it), you would find that your life have changed, new friends would have appeared, have better finances, better health (a saving from medical bills), able to find best prices for any thing you want, pay less in utility bills, unexpected opportunities appearing regularly, and the most important of all you are enjoying the best relationship with the one you love.

Thank You! I Appreciate You!
Best Wishes to All.
Always Better and Better.

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.

 If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something

for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times;

during those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations because

they give you opportunities for improvements.

Be thankful for each new challenge because

it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes,

they will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you are tired and

weary because it means you made a difference.

 It is easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to

those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles

                and they can become your blessings.