Why do love ones turn against us? Why do husbands and wives changed their attitude and become cold to one another after many years of being together? Where did the love go? Does the experiences of growing up and the education you receive from school, home, and friends you grow up with, have a negative effect on you, later in life?
Here is where dowsing becomes a very handy tool that will save you many trips to the counselor's office. You can check with dowsing, the effects of your parents upon you, your friends upon you(even your best friend), your school, your neighborhood, your relationships, all of these have a significant effect on you, and shape the way you behave now.
You can neutralize all effects of whatever that is affecting you, and transform the energy into freedom or other energies you want. Recently I was having some skin problems on my left toe, as usual I dowse for a solution, but all efforts failed. Then it came to me to check for how much unconditional love do I have for myself, I was surprised that I had a very low amount of unconditional love for myself. I corrected this and skin problem on my left toe healed.
Cancer is a dis-ease caused by deep resentment held for a long time until it literally eats away at the body. Something happens in Childhood that destroys the sense of trust. This experience is never forgotten, and the individual lives with a sense of self-pity, finding it hard to develop and maintain long-term, meaningful relationships. Because of that belief system, life seems to be a series of disappointments. A feeling of hopelessness and helplessness and loss permeates the thinking, and it becomes easy to blame others for all our problems. People with cancer are also self-critical. Learning to love and accept the self is the key to healing cancers.
Overweight represents a need for protection. We seek protection from hurts, slights, criticism, abuse, sexuality, and sexual advances; from a fear of life in general and also specifically. We sometime put on a few pounds when we are stress or feeling insecure. Fighting fat is a waste of time and energy. Diets don't work. The minute you stop, the weight goes back up. Loving and approving of yourself, trusting in the process of life and feeling safe because you know the power of your own mind make up the best diet ever. Go on a diet from negative thoughts, and your weight will take care of itself.
Too many parents stuff food in a baby's mouth no matter what the problem is. These babies grow up to stand in front of an open refrigerator saying, ' I don't know what I want,' whenever there is a problem. Pain of any sort is an indication of guilt. Guilt always seeks punishment, and punishment creates pain. Chronic pain comes from chronic guilt, often so deeply buried that we are not even aware of it anymore.
Guilt is a totally useless emotion. It never makes anyone feel better, nor does it change a situation. Your 'sentence' is now over, so let yourself out of prison. Forgiving is only giving up, letting go.
Strokes are blood clots; congestion in the bloodstream in the area of the brain cutting off the blood supply to the brain. The brain is the computer of the body. Blood is Joy. The veins and arteries are channels of Joy. Everything works under the law and the action of Love. There is Love in every bit of intelligence in the Universe. It is impossible to work and function well without Love and Joy being experienced. Negative thinking clogs up the brain, and there is no room for Love and Joy to flow in its free and open way.
Laughter cannot flow if it is not allowed to be free and foolish. It is the same with Love and Joy. Life is not grim unless we make it so, unless we choose to look at it in that way. We can find total disaster in the smallest upset, and we can find some Joy in the greatest tragedy. It is up to us.
Thank you
Love
Alan