Sunday 21 July 2013

How to be Happy?

The world is experiencing rapid changes recently many uprising, new diseases, economical reforms and many ugly issues are surfacing in our society. In India recently young children have died from eating contaminated school lunch, in my own country child care teachers have become violent to little children under their care.

What is this indicating to us, in a place where young children are not safe from the very people who are supposed to give them care and love. Have these people lost their mind or lost their hearts, is society so stress out that we forgotten what is it to be human? 

I do not have the answers to all these, maybe these people were so caught up by negative energy or become influence by mass consciousness that made them take it out on young children or could it be the 'bad karma' of the children because their parents could not care for their own children?

My wife made a choice to give up her career when our children arrived she once told me that she could leave this world happy because she gave all her love to her children, her words were that she carried all of them in her arms, loved and cared for them to her heart's content. She never missed a moment of experiencing the love between herself and her children.

The choice is different for everyone some prefer to work and contribute financially to their family, others try to do both, others do not even bother about others and care only about themselves.

It is not about giving or not giving it is about a choice, when you give love to others you receive the same it is a law of nature, there is no other way. Do not hang on to the believe that you have to grab as much as possible of everything for yourself to be happy, this will not bring you happiness because it only bring you grief and pain when you are old. If you love yourself then give to others your love and in return you will receive all the love you need which is what you are after in the first place.

My Guru said if you have helped many others in your life, you need not worry when you grow old because many will come to offer their help when you need it. Decide today if you are going to be happy.

Another saying from my Guru- 'The best seva (service) you can do is to give others peace of mind.' What you say has a great impact on the person you speak to, so from today be aware of the way you speak to others, make it a point to use kind words when you are in conversation with others.

Thank You! I appreciate You!
Best Wishes to All.
Always Better and Better.











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